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9.13.2010

How to Relate to an Atheist

This article seeks to help theists understand the viewpoint of atheists and relate to them in a respectful way.

  Steps


  1. Understand that Atheists are human beings with the same rights as theists.
  2. Recognize that they are community members who are entitled to the same rights as you are in developed societies. This is due to the fact that one of the criteria for being a developed society is the absence of discrimination on the basis of religion.
  3. Understand that Atheists recognize standards of ethics and morality, even if they do not match yours.  They may also have many or all of the same morals as you, but for different reasons.
  4. Be aware of the commonality of negative propaganda about atheists, such as "Atheists hate our country". This propaganda is never true.
  5. Respect their right to hold a differing opinion.


  Tips


  • Learn specifics about Atheism, agnosticism, and naturalistic philosophy, this will make it easier to relate to those you meet.
  • Communicate with friendliness.
  • Treat others as you'd like to be treated.
  • Don't assume, ASK, atheists are far less likely to be offended by questions regarding their lack of faith.
  • If you attempt to convert or argue with an atheist, be prepared, as he/she probably knows several well reasoned arguments.


  Warnings


  • Avoid condescension and self-righteousness when debating.
  • Debate respectfully and be well informed on your views, your opposition's views, and the standards of respectful debate.
  • Atheists are not stupid. Most loud and proud atheists are very rational thinkers who've been exposed to both sides of the fence. If you have not seen how atheists talk, debate or reason, do your homework before approaching one with a discussion. Failure to understand another person's view prior to discourse can result in being ridiculed for ignorance.
  • Atheism is not a religion or an organized set of beliefs. Therefore, do not categorize or generalize atheists as a group. The definition of an atheist is someone who has not accepted the claim that there is/are (a) god(s). That is the only unifying belief, beyond that, you would be foolish to assume anything. An Atheist may be pro-choice or pro-life, support or oppose same-sex marriage, be liberal or conservative, or belong to any political party.  They may enjoy traditionally religious holidays, or even religious art and music.  An Atheist may have come to the same moral or political conclusions as you, only by different reasoning.
  • There is no way to tell without asking, but religion may be a painful subject for an Atheist - either due to previous religious disagreements with family and friends, or for philosophical or moral reasons.  If they show discomfort beyond what you would expect in an academic debate, it may be best to change the subject.  Otherwise, you may inadvertently drive them farther away from your side.
  • An Atheist may avoid discussing religion because they don't want to change your mind.  They may be able to admire your faith without sharing it, and accept it as part of who you are.


  Things You'll Need


  • An open and understanding mind
  • Willingness to hold yourself to the same standards as the questions you ask them.




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9.09.2010

How to Avoid Getting Shot by a Police Officer

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Whether or not you have done something wrong, there is no reason to be shot by a police officer -- that is, unless you give them one. Here are some ways to avoid personal harm in situations with a police officer that has their gun drawn. A lot of this advice may seem like common sense, but when there's a gun pointing at you, it's easy to panic and accidentally do something threatening.

  Steps

  1. Never flee from police. If the police approach you and speak to you, do not run or even walk away. Regardless of your rights, doing this arouses suspicion and greatly increases the chance of a fatal misunderstanding. If you are innocent, you have nothing to gain by fleeing, but you should also avoid speaking to the police as much as possible as you are not required to by law and could get yourself into trouble. Even if you are guilty of a crime, fleeing will always make things worse.
  2. Avoid any sudden movements. No matter what you're doing, stop in that position and try not to move. At this point, any movement you make that is unexpected is one step closer to getting shot...especially any movements you make with your hands.

  3. Do what you're told, and do it slowly. The officer will tell you exactly what he or she wants you to do. That typically includes putting your hands on the back of your head, walking backwards toward the sound of their voice, or lying down on the ground. Obey their orders, but do it at a slow enough pace that you don't alarm them.
  4. Do not talk. At this point, you've either already broken the law and don't need to make it worse on yourself, or you are the victim of a misunderstanding and need to cooperate to prevent an unfortunate accident. Chances are good that if the officer has drawn their weapon, you will almost certainly be arrested, and there is not much you can say to stop that from happening.  There will be plenty of time to talk once you are in cuffs and no longer considered a threat.

    • An exception to this may be if the officer tells you to do something that involves moving, it's good to tell him what you are doing, even if it seems redundant. It will keep them feeling safe so they don't shoot you. For example:

      • Officer: "Let me see your I.D." You: "It's in my glovebox/backseat/sock/etc. I'm going to reach down/over and get it for you, OK?" Then move slowly.
      • Officer: "Lay down on the ground!" You: "I'm going to lay down on the ground, but I have a bad hip/back/knee, so I need to hold on to this pole/fence/wall to get on the ground."
    • It is almost always in your best interest to remain silent. In most countries, you do not have to answer any questions unless you have a lawyer present, although beware - if you are not sure of your rights (being in a foreign country can affect this, or being in a country with a shaky human rights record) then it is best to answer questions politely and give only the bare details away. If you do not speak the local language fluently, however, do not attempt to defend yourself verbally; you may accidentally say something that, when translated, incriminates you in some way.
  5. Let yourself be handcuffed. Yes, it may be uncomfortable, but retaliation or struggling is only going to result in serious injury. In many places, it is police protocol to place handcuffs on even the most cooperative of suspects.

  Tips

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  • Don't brandish a weapon. If you have got a gun or knife in your pocket or waistband, leave it alone. Don't draw it, even to surrender it. The officer would much rather find it on his or her own than have you whip it out and wave it around. If you would prefer to surrender the weapon, clearly speak words to the effect of "I would like to turn over my weapon" and the officer will tell you what to do next.
  • Should the circumstances force you to engage in combat with an armed suspect, disengage and retreat the moment the police arrive, or as soon after their arrival as you can. If at all possible, avoid attempting to render first aid until the fight is over.  Also, don't touch any evidence  that may  have been left behind.

  Warnings

  • Never shine a laser pointer toward officers. This can very easily be mistaken for a laser sight, a modification commonly affixed to firearms to enhance a weapon's accuracy.


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